Sunday, October 21, 2012

Just Like the French Say: "Be Comfortable In Your Own Skin!"

Self Portrait: Ask Me Why I Took This Picture--A Pretty Girl Does It Her Way!...
This post originally appeared on Stella Boonshoft's Tumblr, The Body Love Blog. Brandon, founder of the photo blog Humans of New York, recently met and talked to Stella and published the portrait and Stella's post on the organization's Facebook page, where it got 270,000 likes, nearly 10,000 shares and over 26,000 comments in 14 hours. You might also be interested in reading Stella's thoughts on the origins of her body image issues and her response to all of the attention her first post has received.
WARNING: Picture might be considered obscene because subject is not thin. And we all know that only skinny people can show their stomachs and celebrate themselves. Well I'm not going to stand for that. This is my body. Not yours. MINE. Meaning the choices I make about it, are none of your f*cking business. Meaning my size, IS NONE OF YOUR F*CKING BUSINESS.
If my big belly and fat arms and stretch marks and thick thighs offend you, then that's okay. I'm not going to hide my body and my being to benefit your delicate sensitivities.


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This picture is for the strange man at my nanny's church who told me my belly was too big when I was five.

This picture is for my horseback riding trainer telling me I was too fat when I was nine.
This picture is for the girl from summer camp who told me I'd be really pretty if I just lost a few pounds
This picture is for all the f*cking stupid advertising agents who are selling us cream to get rid of our stretch marks, a perfectly normal thing most people have (I got mine during puberty)
This picture is for the boy at the party who told me I looked like a beached whale.
This picture is for Emily from middle school, who bullied me incessantly, made mocking videos about me, sent me nasty emails, and called me "lard". She made me feel like I didn't deserve to exist. Just because I happened to be bigger than her. I was 12. And she continued to bully me via social media into high school.
MOST OF ALL, this picture is for me. For the girl who hated her body so much she took extreme measures to try to change it. Who cried for hours over the fact she would never be thin. Who was teased and tormented and hurt just for being who she was.
I'm so over that.
THIS IS MY BODY, DEAL WITH IT.
This post originally appeared onThe Body Love Blog.
MORE FROM STELLA:
Backstory: How I Learned To Hate My Body -- And Love It Again
I Spoke Out And People Listened -- So Why Am I So Upset?


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Friday, October 12, 2012

Paris Fashion Week and more...













Saturday, October 6, 2012

A Historical Paris Fashion Week (Take a Look Back)

Finale at Dior Spring/Summer 2013 show | Source: Nowfashion.com
Today, Jessica Michault, editor-in-chief of Nowfashion.com, shares her thoughts on the Paris Fashion Week collections.
PARIS, France — Each season, as the international fashion flock winds its way from New York to London to Milan, there is usually a gradual yet perceptible build up of excitement for what comes last: Paris Fashion Week. After all, it’s here in the City of Light where the best and brightest designers from around the world come to show their collections. It’s here that the season’s fashion trends finally crystallise. And of course, Paris is home to the industry’s most powerful fashion houses and luxury groups.
This season, the buzz was anything but gradual. From the very first day of New York Fashion Week, there was the loud and ceaseless hum of discussion about the impending ‘battle royale’ between two of the top names in the fashion industry, Raf Simons and Hedi Slimane, who were set to show their debut ready-to-wear collections for Dior and the recently rebranded Saint Laurent, respectively, each owned by competing luxury conglomerates LVMH and PPR.
Many argued that this Paris Fashion Week would change the fashion world as we know it; that something new was about to be born. Well, the fashion world may have changed, but it did so with a whimper, not with a bang.

Dior Spring/Summer 2013 | Source: Nowfashion.com
At Dior, Raf Simons produced a beautiful collection that deconstructed the brand’s famous Bar jacket from Christian Dior’s iconic 1947 New Look collection. The show was utterly modern in the way Simons incorporated colourful, high-tech and iridescent fabrics, as well as unusual embellishments, into rounded womanly shapes that looked deceptively simple, but illustrated the designer’s tailoring prowess.
Though much of this collection covered similar territory to what Simons explored in his haute couture show in July, that is to be expected, as ready-to-wear should trickle down from couture. But happily, there was also some of Simons’ own minimalist aesthetic at play. He was less reserved with his silhouettes and dared to experiment more freely with the codes of the house. Still, there wasn’t that same excitement of discovering a completely new sartorial universe.
Over at Saint Laurent, surprise was the name of the game. The entire industry was kept in the dark, quite literally, about Hedi Slimane’s debut collection for the house until the first wide brim hat-wearing model took to the catwalk in a pitch black showspace in the rafters of the Grand Palais.
Saint Laurent Spring/Summer 2013 | Source: Nowfashion.com
Here, again, there was a mélange between the legendary past of an iconic brand and the style of a new designer. But the balance was off and the show tipped too far towards an homage to the history of the house, and failed to illuminate a new path for the brand to travel in future. It didn’t help that the collection was dominated by only two silhouettes — the classic YSL tuxedo and 70′s style caftans — which provided a rather confined framework.
But if the clash of the titans failed to unfold as many had hoped, that didn’t mean that Paris Fashion Week was a disappointment. Far from it.
A number of brands showed incredibly strong collections this season. Dries van Noten’s ode to the 1990s Seattle grunge movement revealed a designer at the peak of his creative talents. Alber Elbaz’s Asia-inspired Lanvin collection, which used the concept of molding and folding flat pieces of fabric to create angular yet sensual clothing, gave the house a strong new direction to follow.
The return of Phoebe Philo, after the birth of her third child, proved that the designer has still got her finger firmly on the pulse of what the modern woman wants. With Jil Sander back at the helm of her eponymous brand, known for its minimalist aesthetic, as well as a broad shift in fashion towards the kind of minimalism Philo has championed since taking the creative reins at Céline, the designer pushed her unassuming style in a slightly different direction. That is to say, she loosened up a bit, using flowing silks and choosing to leave hemlines raw and knitwear frayed. As for those ironic accessories, they pointed to a woman who was finally letting her wicked sense of humour show.
Dries van Noten Spring/Summer 2013 | Source: Nowfashion.com
Haider Ackermann’s darkly poetic show revealed a designer right in the middle of sartorial exploration, as the fashion world closely watches his every move. Meanwhile, the maestro Karl Lagerfeld showed himself to be firmly above the fashion fray with a collection that was both youthful and wearable. On a catwalk adorned with enormous wind turbines, Lagerfeld sent out ensembles that were more restrained than usual. Focusing on proportion, he created comfortable A-line dresses as well as modern-looking outfits that featured fitted dresses underneath cropped tops.
What all of these shows have in common is that they were not only designer-driven, but commercially viable. In each case, the clothing in these collections could have walked right off the runway and into the wardrobes of modern women without commercial adaptation.
Another major highlight of Paris was evidence on the runways that a new generation of fashion designers is starting to establish itself in a significant way. The catwalk shows of Cédric Charlier, Anthony Vaccarello and Chitose Abe — the designer behind the brand Sacai — were all fully formed; well conceived and expertly executed. Each of these designers has brought a fresh new voice to fashion and proves that Paris is still a hotbed of emerging designer creativity.
Jessica Michault is editor-in-chief of Nowfashion.com